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Contemplation

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Shattered hopes, hopeless sighs,
Blurred visions, teary eyes,
Unchangeable decisions,
Promised lies..
This is how I think my life would pass by.
Hardly do I live, I am spending my life more
I devalue all the prior efforts and struggles I bore,
Breathing seems to be a task of life..
With everything falling apart and nothing alright.
Even writing this holds no meaning any further,
For contemplating my life, is all that i seem to have mastered.
Procrastination has become the solo drive in life,
Delaying it further or simply doing it, remains a strife.
My mere existence has become a question somehow,
Shall I live this hopeless but that too, how?
World roams around the interrogation family of “wh” words..
Giving away all the precious days uselessly holds no worth..
I might just conclude with no positive results,
’Cause I can’t answer you the questions, which even for me, go unanswered.

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Author: A blog by Bhavya Arora. Bhavya is a psychology student who holds keen interest in interacting with people as much as she can. She communicates through her words,write-ups and actions. Her love for the virtue of love defines her the most. She holds a passion for living life, a life lived to spread happiness. She is a member of the ‘Happiness Team’ of Human Circle.

 

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What do you want to be?

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What do you want to be? Or What will you do when you grow up? I was asked this question multiple times as a kid. But as I grew up the question changed, right after the 10th standard, the question transformed into, “Which stream do you want to take: Science or Commerce?”(no offence to Arts ;\ )

As I grew older and changed physically, emotionally, mentally and psychologically, the question grew too. It grew more intense and thought provoking. It grew into, which college you want to attend? And in final year of college I have to choose from the few jobs, I was eligible to take. At last, settling in life sort of puts an end to the process of choosing.

Some motivational speakers say if you want to be successful in life: be like a child. From being a child they mean to embrace the qualities of a kid. One of the qualities that kids possess is that they do what they love! Whether its crying like hell or beating the shit out of each other. They don’t put much effort in thinking before doing. But as we grow old, all we do is, ‘think’. Our own needs imprison us and we can’t do anything. Existential questions like What’s my purpose in life? become merely a part of a discussion or discourse. And then we go back to that tedious job to manage our ‘needs’.

Every individual is different and each one has their unique talents and interests. But in the worldly ‘rat race’, people often ignore the fact that they can really achieve much more by doing what they love. Some argue that they don’t know what they love to do. For them I have this Steve Job’s quote:

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Author: A blog by Tarun Gupta. Tarun is an engineering student from IIT Delhi who wants to explore the world and never wants to settle.Meeting new people, sharing new ideas and solving problems that really matter and to which he himself can relate with, is what drives him in life. He firmly believes in #DoWhatYouLove and spreading it in any way possible. He is a member of the ‘Happiness Team’ of Human Circle.

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If F.R.I.E.N.D.S can do what they love, so can you!!!

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So I spent my summer binge watching the ever so popular sitcom FRIENDS. As I drew near the end of the show, it stuck me hard. All the characters were shown happy and satisfied in their lives, because they ended up doing what they loved or being with the people that they loved..

Chandler is shown to be a ‘transponster’ and it is only towards the end that he really realises that he could do so much better if he were to write! A total switch of careers to do what he loved, was indeed inspiring!

As for Monica, she loved to cook and clean. And no matter how obsessive she turned about her cleaning, she never gave up. She would clean and clean and clean. To such an extent, that she couldn’t sleep imagining Ross’s girlfriend’s house (The one with the rat). Monica personified the quote, “passion is such that it doesn’t let you sleep at night.” As for cooking, she never gave up! Even when she had to cook with ‘mocklates’! :p

Rachel, is shown to be a rich spoilt girl who loves clothes. Even to an extent, that when she runs from her own altar, the analogy of explaining her life to her dad is through a shoe and a hat! I would love to bring your attention towards the gleam in her eyes when she was offered a job in Paris and how nothing else mattered. That my friends, is the light of passion!

As for Phoebe, she loved giving. I perceive her as a very compassionate and kind person. In my opinion, being happy and spreading happiness was what she loved. Be it for the old lady’s spirit that entered her body or her stepbrother Frank, she could go way beyond her horizons to spread happiness!

Coming to Joey, he is a cute heart! No matter how adorable was he as an actor, I thoroughly enjoyed his ‘smell the fart’ acting! And his fake laugh practice at Central Perk.. And his tweezer in the pocket to get you cry stunt!! The fact that he loved acting and no matter what anybody told him, or whatever reviews were published for his acting in the newspapers, he continued with it. He kept going, because that made him happy!!!! He is a true legend to prove that real happiness lies in doing what you love! And you should not stop, print what they may!

Last but not the least, the person who ABSOLUTELY loved what he did, Ross. His spirit to work was indeed commendable! His love for dinosaurs and his passion for science, not just made him utterly annoying to his friends, but also a great palaeontologist!! The effort and time invested to be the best, becomes so easier when you pursue your passion. Even if it lies in dinosaurs.

The above article could and would have been a proof enough that I purely loved the show! Not only were the characters hilarious, but also a true inspiration! So I urge each fanatic to #DoWhatYouLove today!! If F.R.I.E.N.D.S can do what they love, so can YOU!

Author: A blog by Bhavya Arora. Bhavya is a psychology student who holds keen interest in interacting with people as much as she can. She communicates through her words,write-ups and actions. Her love for the virtue of love defines her the most. She holds a passion for living life, a life lived to spread happiness. She is a member of the ‘Happiness Team’ of Human Circle.